A reader asked us if we’ve ever been discriminated for our choice of boldly living the swinger lifestyle. The answer is…. YES! And you may have been too. It can…
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Dear John & Jackie Any recommendations on how to get started in the lifestyle when you have young kids. We want to visit a club, however the closest one is…
Here at Openlove101 and in colette clubs, we’ve been hearing a lot about consent lately and what that means has really changed over the years. We’re experiencing something different in…
Dear John & Jackie, I’m a single guy, how do I find a female that would be interested in the lifestyle? ================ Dear Single guy, My first thought would be…
Today we are with our special guest Kara, lifestyle club manager of colette Houston! And we’re having a conversation about being empathetic about yourself. How so? Often times a couple…
What are some reasons why someone might want to get into the swingers lifestyle? If you’re on the fence about having this sort of relationship, exploring your options, or just…
My husband and I were recently asked how we keep our relationship special. What is it that we do to differentiate our marriage from our other encounters—if we’re going on…
This is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first videos, here are the links to Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3….
Despite the challenges our country faces on a daily basis, we are grateful for the freedom we have for the swinger lifestyle, especially compared to some of the oppression that other…
We heard some comments lately that the swinger lifestyle may be dominated by males. Are they really the ones doing the leading or encouraging women to explore the lifestyle? Is this just a boys’ club?…
As most of you already know, John and I own and operate a chain of swingers’ clubs in the U.S. called colette. John has been personally and professionally involved in…
Jackie MelfiJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report “Getting Naughty In N’awlins”, Inside a New Orleans…
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