A reader asked us if we’ve ever been discriminated for our choice of boldly living the swinger lifestyle. The answer is…. YES! And you may have been too. It can be an unfortunate aspect of being openly swingers, but we take it as an opportunity to educate others about the misconceptions, why it works for …
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Dear John & Jackie Any recommendations on how to get started in the lifestyle when you have young kids. We want to visit a club, however the closest one is an hour away. Any tips would be greatly appreciated. Thank you! Newbies ===================== Dear Newbies, Unless you’re able to drop the kiddos off at the …
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Here at Openlove101 and in colette clubs, we’ve been hearing a lot about consent lately and what that means has really changed over the years. We’re experiencing something different in our environment as the new generation emerges, so let’s discuss what that means in today’s world! John & Jackieopenlove101.com
Dear John & Jackie, I’m a single guy, how do I find a female that would be interested in the lifestyle? ================ Dear Single guy, My first thought would be joining an adult social site. Sites like SDC.com, or Kasidie.com are just a couple of the many sites available. These sites allow you to connect …
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Today we are with our special guest Kara, lifestyle club manager of colette Houston! And we’re having a conversation about being empathetic about yourself. How so? Often times a couple may be contemplating about getting into the swinger lifestyle and if they come up against an obstacle, they already begin to think that the lifestyle …
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What are some reasons why someone might want to get into the swingers lifestyle? If you’re on the fence about having this sort of relationship, exploring your options, or just in the information collecting stage and wanting to learn more about it, then this video is for you! John & Jackieopenlove101.com
My husband and I were recently asked how we keep our relationship special. What is it that we do to differentiate our marriage from our other encounters—if we’re going on dates, holding hands, kissing, or having sex with others, what’s left for us to share? My guttural response was, “Are you kidding me?! What’s left …
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This is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first videos, here are the links to Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3. In today’s Part 4, we’re going to talk about playing separately versus together. Playing together would include something like having a threesome where you’re both …
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Despite the challenges our country faces on a daily basis, we are grateful for the freedom we have for the swinger lifestyle, especially compared to some of the oppression that other swingers have to face in other parts of the world. Today’s video was inspired by a wonderful couple we met who shared a little bit …
We heard some comments lately that the swinger lifestyle may be dominated by males. Are they really the ones doing the leading or encouraging women to explore the lifestyle? Is this just a boys’ club? John & Jackieopenlove101.com
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