7 Steps to Having the Sexiest STI Disclosure Conversation Ever

Earlier this year, I came out to the world about something most people would keep to themselves: I have HSV-2, or what is commonly thought of as genital herpes. You can read all about it...

Our Response to the Pandemic

In this video, we talk about what challenges we’ve gone through with our lifestyle clubs, connecting with others during this time, what we’re doing as a couple with more time together, and how we feel...

Finding A Ray of Light In The Midst of A Pandemic

As our “social distancing” has now extended through the end of April 2020, many of us are left with the indelible mark of a changed life. With another month right around the corner, things like...

Menopause in the Lifestyle

For those of us who’ve gone through the process of menopause, we know all too well the complications/changes/challenges that can befall us. The night sweats, the vaginal dryness, decreases in our libido, are just some...

I Have Herpes & I’m Zero Percent Ashamed

This is a story of sex, shame, getting dumped, and real love. My first thought when I got my herpes diagnosis was, “Fuck, Brad’s gonna flip.” Brad was a boy I was seeing at the...

Open Relationships and Drinking Alcohol (Sex Uninterrupted Podcast)

We were on a podcast/video interview with the wonderful Taara & James of Sex Uninterrupted where we talked about being on Lisa Ling’s show on CNN, how we got started in the lifestyle together, and...

Sexual Trauma, Kink, BDSM, Honesty w/ Charlie & Arienne (2019)

8 Life Lessons From My Father

In 2007 my father died. A shocking “here one day, gone the next” kind of death and it shook me to my core. I began to think about my own mortality and that awakening taught...

Learning to Ask for Love and Support

Today marks a special day for me because it was the beginning of when I truly began to learn how to allow myself to ask for love and support – and just as important –...

#Metoo: Jackie’s Journey From Victim to Victor

I’m angry. Yes, I’m Included in the long list of people who’ve been touched without permission. But that’s not what makes me angry. What makes me angry is this victimization that takes hold whenever a...