Building Trust Through Swinging
Jackie MelfiAs most of you know, I keep a diary. A collection of thoughts, stories and tidbits about my life. Not only do I find this daily writing to be of great importance to my writing...
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3 Steps to a Successful Swinger Lifestyle Date
Jackie MelfiI don’t know about you, but John and I have a difficult time finding those playdates, but when we do find those magical moments when all four partners seem to be in sync, it almost...
My Swinger Husband Surprised Me With Another Man
Jackie MelfiHave you ever had your routine interrupted, and instead of fighting it you simply go with the flow? I recently encountered such a scenario on what I thought would be the most routine of days....
Finding a Man for My Wife’s Swinger Fantasy
John MelfiIt was just a normal Sunday like any other Sunday. I was feeling horny and wanted to do something a little different from the normal routine. I wanted to do something to make this Sunday...
Benefits of Having a Swinger’s Relationship
John & JackieEver wonder why you should consider getting into a swinger relationship? Or want to convince someone you know to explore getting into one? One of our favorites way to play and explore is during traveling....
A Swinger Finds Empowerment Through Responsibility
Jackie MelfiWe live in a day and age where it’s acceptable to not take responsibility for our decisions. Not only is avoiding responsibility accepted, but in many instances it’s encouraged. More often than not, we see...
Swinging and Open Relationships are the Wave of the Future
Jackie MelfiI recently read an article from the New York Post that talks about the growing trend of wives giving their husbands permission to cheat. This permission, according to the article, is arranged through a contract...
A Swinger and a Sleepover
Jackie MelfiJohn and I do most of our traveling together, but recently John had to make an overnight business trip and we decided I would stay home. I had recently become acquainted with Eric (not his...
A Swinger Couple Tests Their Boundaries
Jackie MelfiRecently, John and I had the privilege of spending a fun filled evening with another swinger couple. This couple was relatively new to the lifestyle and even though they were excited and gungho about swinging,...
Setting Love Free in an Open Relationship
Jackie MelfiOne of the most frequent questions I get about being in an open/swinger relationship has to do with love. “If you play apart aren’t you afraid your partner might fall in love with someone else?”...