Swingers

What It’s Like to Be A Poly Unicorn At a Swinger Convention

When John and Jackie Melfi invited me to be their guest at this year’s Naughty In N’awlins, an annual swingers’ convention that happens every summer in New Orleans, I was really excited and grateful. For one thing, I’d finally get to meet John and Jackie, this awesome couple who brought me on as an essayist …

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Ask John & Jackie: Swingers Lifestyle For Parents & Singles

Dear John & Jackie Any recommendations on how to get started in the lifestyle when you have young kids. We want to visit a club, however the closest one is an hour away. Any tips would be greatly appreciated. Thank you! Newbies ===================== Dear Newbies, Unless you’re able to drop the kiddos off at the …

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What I Learned From Will Smith and How It Affects My Open Marriage

One day (while avoiding work…this is an article on responsibility after all), I found myself aimlessly scrolling through Facebook. I came across a video by actor Will Smith. Smith, I would soon learn, has quite a collection of brief, yet thought-provoking videos. The one which captured my attention on that particular day was about fault …

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Ask John & Jackie: Finding Unicorns and Socializing Inside Swingers Club

Today we have a double header with two curious Openlove101 readers writing in: QUESTION #1 Dear John & Jackie, Hello! Quick question/possible topic. My wife and i have had a couple encounters, we’ve always played together although we talked about her alone with another woman. We’ve had a lot of trouble finding the infamous “unicorn”. …

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Ask John & Jackie: Pros and Cons of Open Relationships

Dear John & Jackie, Hi! I’m enjoying your videos so far. I wanted to share my story and ask some questions about the swinger lifestyle. I was raised as a Mormon, which is a fundamentalist cult-like strict faith. It is sexually shaming and suppressing unless you are married, and even then, there isn’t much openness …

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