Open relationship dating can be stressful and nerve wrecking if you don’t have a general framework. That’s where the easy 3 Ps Approach comes into play to help you make your swinger lifestyle date a smashing success. The first P discusses the VERY important step that you and your partner should be taking with the …
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When we think of Valentine’s Day, most of us think of bouquets of roses, boxes of chocolates, dinner dates, and love dipped greeting cards rather than the history of this love filled holiday. For instance, did you know this celebration of love has its roots in an annual Roman pagan festival? The festival was called …
As owners of lifestyle clubs, we hear all the common complaints from members about single guys, so we figured we make a video and share some things NOT to do as a single male at swingers clubs. AVOID these at all costs if you want to connect and play well with others! John & Jackieopenlove101.com
Walking THROUGH my fears? What do you mean? Can we just walk around them or under them or over them?! Sometimes walking into the (perceived) danger of our fears isn’t the most exciting thing to do, but nonetheless it’s the source of growth. In this video, we talk about how we can use boundaries to …
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We received a bunch of questions lately about how it works when playing alone in situations like different rooms at house parties or clubs or even going on separate (play) dates – and how we dealt with the emotions of the first time we played alone/separately. Watch our new video and join the discussion! John …
A reader asked us if we’ve ever been discriminated for our choice of boldly living the swinger lifestyle. The answer is…. YES! And you may have been too. It can be an unfortunate aspect of being openly swingers, but we take it as an opportunity to educate others about the misconceptions, why it works for …
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What type of swinger are you? Do any of these sound like you? Do you identify with more than one? It’s also important to be aware of the different types of swingers and their preferences when you meet them so that you know if they’re someone you’d like to get to know better. Watch today’s …
Dear John & Jackie, Hello! My girlfriend and I have been with a two couples before and we loved it but some jealousy started to arise. What are ways to help her feel comfortable again with the idea of swinging. Jealousy 101 ===================== Dear Jealousy 101, Communication, communication, communication! It is very important to have …
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We received a call from a couple who didn’t identify themselves as swingers. They have been in a monogamous marriage for some time now, but the husband had been voicing his issues with wanting more freedom. He also felt that if he didn’t get that, there’s no other solution than a divorce. So how did …
We love talking to couples because it’s such a fun topic that we’re so passionate about. What’s really fun is to hear how effective swinging strategies can be in non-swinging relationships! This is the kind of feedback we’re getting: We don’t have an open relationship, but opening our relationship has changed our relationship. Especially if …
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Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
