Swinging Lifestyle: Fear of Being Honest

Ever been afraid to be honest to your partner about your needs and wants because you’re afraid to hurt their feelings, upset them, have them get mad at you, or anything else insane like that??...

Swinging Lifestyle Highs and Lows

We have a reader today who noticed their high highs and low lows in the lifestyle. They emailed in to us: I was wondering if you have any advice to smooth out the intense emotions....

Swinging Relationship Issues: Defusing Arguments

Jackie: Have you ever had an argument with your partner? John: *chuckles* Jackie: Why are you laughing?!? Lol the guys here will understand Jackie’s rhetorical question and John’s response. Today’s video is about arguments and...

Fear and Esteem in Open Relationships – Part 2

We continue the conversation from Part 1 about fear and esteem. Fear can sometimes do things like shut us down and prevent us from having experiences, joy and pleasure, and more. What is fear stopping...

Fear and Esteem in Open Relationships – Part 1

How do our fears relate to our self-esteem and society’s view on the swinger lifestyle? What if your partner is with someone else? Are you afraid they will leave you? That they’re better than you...

What I Learned From Will Smith and How It Affects My Open Marriage

One day (while avoiding work…this is an article on responsibility after all), I found myself aimlessly scrolling through Facebook. I came across a video by actor Will Smith. Smith, I would soon learn, has quite...

Swingers Lifestyle – Self Empathy and Giving Yourself a Break

Today we are with our special guest Kara, lifestyle club manager of colette Houston! And we’re having a conversation about being empathetic about yourself. How so? Often times a couple may be contemplating about getting...

Climbing Mt. Kilimanjaro…When We Let Fear Stop Us

Anyone who follows John and me, know we recently returned from a phenomenal adventure in Tanzania. We joined 15 other hikers on a vegan fueled climb to the top of Mount Kilimanjaro! Ever since we...

How Different Cultures Embrace Swinging Lifestyle

Swinger Relationships and ‘Coming Out’ To Your Kids