Jackie MelfiFlip through the pages of any fitness magazine and you’ll find articles touting the praises of strengthening our core through exercise. Keeping our core muscles (pelvis, back, and abdomen) strong means we’ll have an easier...
John & JackieWalking THROUGH my fears? What do you mean? Can we just walk around them or under them or over them?! Sometimes walking into the (perceived) danger of our fears isn’t the most exciting thing to...
John & JackieWe received a bunch of questions lately about how it works when playing alone in situations like different rooms at house parties or clubs or even going on separate (play) dates – and how we...
John & JackieA reader asked us if we’ve ever been discriminated for our choice of boldly living the swinger lifestyle. The answer is…. YES! And you may have been too. It can be an unfortunate aspect of...
John & JackieWhat type of swinger are you? Do any of these sound like you? Do you identify with more than one? It’s also important to be aware of the different types of swingers and their preferences...
Jackie MelfiIt’s that time of year again. When we pull out boxes from the attic labeled Christmas. Yeah, I know it’s not even Thanksgiving yet, but I’m that woman. The woman in a rush for the...
John & JackieWe received a call from a couple who didn’t identify themselves as swingers. They have been in a monogamous marriage for some time now, but the husband had been voicing his issues with wanting more...
John & JackieWe love talking to couples because it’s such a fun topic that we’re so passionate about. What’s really fun is to hear how effective swinging strategies can be in non-swinging relationships! This is the kind...
Jackie MelfiBefore I get into the meat of this article, I need to dismiss one of the biggest myths about open relationships so there is no confusion: Being “open” doesn’t just mean sex, it means opening...
John & JackieSo what do you do when you’re playing with another couple and it doesn’t go as planned for the guy in the body part department? And it’s hard to get things going. Or not hard…...
Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
