Five Valentine Day Gifts From the Heart

It’s almost Valentine’s Day! It’s that special day set aside every February to celebrate the love we feel towards our partner or anyone who brings love into our life. As this special day quickly approaches,...

How to Handle a Bad Swinging Experience

Your Favorite Swinging Lifestyle Blog Turns 3

Three years ago, John and I were in Jamaica. I remember it like it was yesterday. We had scheduled a trip to Hedonism II, but the trip overlapped our debut of a brand new site...

Key Life Lessons We Learned From Our Swinging Relationship

How does being in the swinger lifestyle benefit beyond just relationships? Does it help in other areas of your life? When we think about it, here are a couple of powerful ways that we approach...

Swinging Lifestyle Benefits for Curious Monogamists

Married women in traditional monogamous relationships were curious and wanted to talk to me about the swinging lifestyle?? After writing her book “Swingers’ Lifestyle: The Questions You Are Afraid to Ask“, Jackie spoke to a...

How My Swinging Marriage Changed My Views About Sex And Relationships

My husband and I were recently asked how we keep our relationship special. What is it that we do to differentiate our marriage from our other encounters—if we’re going on dates, holding hands, kissing, or...

From Anger to Fear to Gratitude

My vanilla friend (non-swinger) Jan (not her real name) called me not too long ago. She was upset about an incident that happened the previous evening. She and her spouse were attending a get together...

Rules & Boundaries in Swinger Relationships – Part 5

This is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first videos, here are the links to Part 1, Part 2, Part 3, and Part 4. In today’s final Part...

Rules & Boundaries in Swinger Relationships – Part 4

This is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first videos, here are the links to Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3. In today’s Part 4, we’re...

Rules & Boundaries in Swinger Relationships – Part 3

This is the continuation on our series for rules and boundaries in swinger relationships. If you missed the first videos, here are the links to Part 1 and then Part 2. In today’s Part 3, we’re going to...