“Everything Is #@%!ED” No, that’s not my motto or creed but it is the title of a book I just finished reading. I’d recently finished reading author Mark Manson’s other…
I don’t talk much about this, but years ago I was in a relationship full of red flags. Like a parade down Main Street, the red flags in this long…
“If you’re happy, I’m happy.” That’s compersion in a nutshell. If you’ve never heard the term before, you’re not alone. You won’t find it in any dictionary, and the only…
My husband wants to be in the lifestyle. He wants to swing with other couples together. We have done some soft swap with another couple out of the blue. Things…
How was swinging introduced in your relationship? Who was the first partner to bring up the topic? Michael is guilty of luring Emily into the lifestyle. He took her to…
When John and I were first dating, I was working at a bank in a small town outside of Wichita, Kansas. John was living in Tampa at the time, and…
What type of swinger are you? Do any of these sound like you? Do you identify with more than one? It’s also important to be aware of the different types…
Not only do John and I receive questions through Openlove101, but we also receive lots of inquiries through our Openlove101 Youtube channel. We received the following response/comment on our ““Swinging…
We continue the conversation from Part 1 about fear and esteem. Fear can sometimes do things like shut us down and prevent us from having experiences, joy and pleasure, and…
How do our fears relate to our self-esteem and society’s view on the swinger lifestyle? What if your partner is with someone else? Are you afraid they will leave you?…
Dear John & Jackie, Hi! I’m enjoying your videos so far. I wanted to share my story and ask some questions about the swinger lifestyle. I was raised as a…
Married women in traditional monogamous relationships were curious and wanted to talk to me about the swinging lifestyle?? After writing her book “Swingers’ Lifestyle: The Questions You Are Afraid to…