“Everything Is #@%!ED” No, that’s not my motto or creed but it is the title of a book I just finished reading. I’d recently finished reading author Mark Manson’s other book, “The Subtle Art Of Not Giving A F*ck.” I figured I’d liked his last book so much I might as well give his new …
I don’t talk much about this, but years ago I was in a relationship full of red flags. Like a parade down Main Street, the red flags in this long ago relationship waved loud and proud. I knew the flags existed early on, but I chose to ignore them to the detriment of myself and …
“If you’re happy, I’m happy.” That’s compersion in a nutshell. If you’ve never heard the term before, you’re not alone. You won’t find it in any dictionary, and the only people who are familiar with it are those who’ve read up on polyamory. The common definition of compersion is a feeling of happiness or joy …
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My husband wants to be in the lifestyle. He wants to swing with other couples together. We have done some soft swap with another couple out of the blue. Things just kind of happened. I on the other hand am not sure about this adventure. I don’t feel our marriage is in a stable place …
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How was swinging introduced in your relationship? Who was the first partner to bring up the topic? Michael is guilty of luring Emily into the lifestyle. He took her to wild, hedonistic dance parties in the first couple of days of our relationship. He knew it would be fun. We both loved hot and loud …
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When John and I were first dating, I was working at a bank in a small town outside of Wichita, Kansas. John was living in Tampa at the time, and was traveling from Tampa to Dallas, where he was opening colette, then on to Wichita to visit me before going back home. Whenever John wasn’t …
What type of swinger are you? Do any of these sound like you? Do you identify with more than one? It’s also important to be aware of the different types of swingers and their preferences when you meet them so that you know if they’re someone you’d like to get to know better. Watch today’s …
Not only do John and I receive questions through Openlove101, but we also receive lots of inquiries through our Openlove101 Youtube channel. We received the following response/comment on our ““Swinging As A Threesome” video. dome ENT. b if i love her i couldn’t watch another man do her lol Openlove101 This is why having all …
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We continue the conversation from Part 1 about fear and esteem. Fear can sometimes do things like shut us down and prevent us from having experiences, joy and pleasure, and more. What is fear stopping you from doing?! John & Jackieopenlove101.com
How do our fears relate to our self-esteem and society’s view on the swinger lifestyle? What if your partner is with someone else? Are you afraid they will leave you? That they’re better than you and your partner will want to spend more time with them? Do those fears make you feel like you’re not …
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Going to a lifestyle club is one of the best ways to meet other like-minded people, but don’t make the mistakes that can turn a great night out into a complete DISASTER!
