It’s almost Valentine’s Day! It’s that special day set aside every February to celebrate the love we feel towards our partner or anyone who brings love into our life. As this special day quickly approaches, I can’t help but start contemplating what to get John this year. When I say get, I usually mean purchase. …
I talk a lot about all the mechanics of an open relationship—all the benefits a consensual non-monogamous union can and does bring to those marriages that introduce the concept into their lives. John and I talk about trust, honesty, and communication being the foundational base for cultivating a peaceful and loving life whether you swing …
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Three years ago, John and I were in Jamaica. I remember it like it was yesterday. We had scheduled a trip to Hedonism II, but the trip overlapped our debut of a brand new site we had created…Openlove101.com. So, from our hotel room, with nervous anticipation, we hit send and launched our little blog. From …
My husband and I were recently asked how we keep our relationship special. What is it that we do to differentiate our marriage from our other encounters—if we’re going on dates, holding hands, kissing, or having sex with others, what’s left for us to share? My guttural response was, “Are you kidding me?! What’s left …
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Jackie MelfiJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report “Getting Naughty In N’awlins”, Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention, and CNN “This Is Life” with Lisa Ling. The Melfis are the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs in New Orleans, …
Swinger couples who’ve been in the lifestyle for any amount of time have learned that the configuration of hookups with others is almost endless. Whether it’s making plans with a single male, a unicorn (single female) or another couple, each play date can come with its own set of situations and preferences. John and I …
As most of you already know, John and I own and operate a chain of swingers’ clubs in the U.S. called colette. John has been personally and professionally involved in the world of swinging for decades, and I joined him in this adventure several years ago. One of my very favorite things about colette is …
John and I recently received the following email regarding this question: Question: Following the notion that an intimate sex experience creates a feeling in the partnership that it is a truly special union (and kept sacred by only sharing intimate sex with your love partner), what then is the essence of what makes it special …
Do you ever get asked ‘what is the lifestyle’? We recently had a conversation with a new couple who just inquired about what the lifestyle is all about. (Maybe you have some friends that have asked you too.) Here’s how we describe it. And if you want to privately consult with us about your personal …
Jackie MelfiJohn and Jackie Melfi are in a consensually non monogamous marriage. They have been featured in ABC News Nightline Special Report “Getting Naughty In N’awlins”, Inside a New Orleans Swingers Convention, and CNN “This Is Life” with Lisa Ling. The Melfis are the force behind the industry famous colette swingers clubs in New Orleans, …
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