A Swinger Finds Empowerment Through Responsibility

We live in a day and age where it’s acceptable to not take responsibility for our decisions. Not only is avoiding responsibility accepted, but in many instances it’s encouraged. More often than not, we see...

Swinging and Open Relationships are the Wave of the Future

I recently read an article from the New York Post that talks about the growing trend of wives giving their husbands permission to cheat. This permission, according to the article, is arranged through a contract...

A Swinger and a Sleepover

John and I do most of our traveling together, but recently John had to make an overnight business trip and we decided I would stay home. I had recently become acquainted with Eric (not his...

A Swinger Couple Tests Their Boundaries

Recently, John and I had the privilege of spending a fun filled evening with another swinger couple. This couple was relatively new to the lifestyle and even though they were excited and gungho about swinging,...

Setting Love Free in an Open Relationship

One of the most frequent questions I get about being in an open/swinger relationship has to do with love. “If you play apart aren’t you afraid your partner might fall in love with someone else?”...

How Swinging Changed Our Lives

In Celebration of Valentine’s Day and Love

Aahhh, love…yes, it is a splendid thing. Now, take a moment, close your eyes, take a deep breath, slowly release it and reach back into your memories. Do you feel it? Can you see it?...

5 Steps to a Closer Relationship

Do you really love your partner if you are in the swinger lifestyle? The short answer is, yes. But that makes for a super short blog. The long answer is also yes, and I will...

5 New Year’s Resolutions From A Swinger Couple

It’s that time of year again, and in keeping with tradition, Jackie and I are going to share with you our swinger new year resolutions. We don’t really have the ‘normal’ resolutions….we eat healthy, we...

The Shy Swinger and How I Met Tim Ferris

I tell girls, when I first meet them, that I’m shy. They are usually surprised. “How can you be shy? You are good looking. You seem confident. You own nightclubs. You seem to have everything...