Importance of Being Yourself in Swinging Relationships
John & Jackie“I’m shaving my bush to meet more men.” Or “I’m shaving my beard to meet more women.” Should I do things like that to attract more partners? Or should I be myself? Watch John &...
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Swinging In a Long Term Marriage
Jackie MelfiAs most of you already know, John and I own and operate a chain of swingers’ clubs in the U.S. called colette. John has been personally and professionally involved in the world of swinging for...
What Keeps a Swinger Marriage Sacred?
Jackie MelfiJohn and I recently received the following email regarding this question: Question: Following the notion that an intimate sex experience creates a feeling in the partnership that it is a truly special union (and kept...
Communication and Boundaries in Open Relationships
John & JackieWatch John and Jackie Talk About Communication and Boundaries in Open Relationships.
What is the Swinging Lifestyle Exactly
Jackie MelfiDo you ever get asked ‘what is the lifestyle’? We recently had a conversation with a new couple who just inquired about what the lifestyle is all about. (Maybe you have some friends that have...
Societal Benefits of Swinging
John & JackieWe believe swinging is great for our personal lives and our relationships, but how does it fit in the context of society?
Join us in the discussion on how swinging benefits our society!
Women: The Powerhouse Behind Swinging
Jackie MelfiOne of the biggest misconceptions from those outside the swinging arena is that women are forced into the lifestyle by their husbands or partners. This ideal that women are conceding to swinging in some feeble...
Can Joining The Swingers Lifestyle Save A Relationship?
John & JackieWe receive emails from our readers periodically asking would the lifestyle help if their relationship isn’t working out for one reason or another. So does swinging really help the matter?? Find out…
Understanding Our Fears and Jealousy
Jackie MelfiWhen it comes to fear and jealousy, most of us can say with a degree of certainty, that we have dealt with those pangs of jealousy or come face to face with our fears. No...
Naughty in N’awlins 2017 – What We Observed and Learned
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Based on the amazing feedback from our first video on Naughty in N’awlins Recap, we wanted to continue sharing with you some of the great experiences and things we observed and learned during our trip.