Swinging Lifestyle And Playing Alone
John & JackieWe received a bunch of questions lately about how it works when playing alone in situations like different rooms at house parties or clubs or even going on separate (play) dates – and how we...
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Different Types of Open Relationships
John & JackieWhat type of swinger are you? Do any of these sound like you? Do you identify with more than one? It’s also important to be aware of the different types of swingers and their preferences...
When Swinging Doesn’t Go As Planned
John & JackieSo what do you do when you’re playing with another couple and it doesn’t go as planned for the guy in the body part department? And it’s hard to get things going. Or not hard…...
Visiting Swingers Club and Embracing Your Bi-Sexuality
John & JackieBi-sexuality among women is not much of a big deal in the United States at lifestyle swinger clubs, but we’ve heard this before when it comes to men: “Did you know there are two men...
Being in an Open Marriage and Dating
Jackie MelfiOne of the things I love about my open non-monogamous relationship with Jackie is our dating life. I love it when Jackie tells me about her dates. I love seeing her happy and having a...
Visiting Swinger Clubs and Dealing With Peer Pressure
John & JackieWe received a wonderful message and question from a reader: The videos you guys posted have changed my life. I feel normal and I appreciate you guys very much. Now colette is the only place...
5 Don’ts for the Swinging Single Guy
Jackie Melfi“I am completely new, but my first experience was, to say the least, a bit unnerving. While I did notice some absolutely respectful single men who approached me and my partner with manners and good...
How Different Cultures Embrace Swinging Lifestyle
John & JackieIn this video, we respond to the question “You guys travel a lot. How is your experience with swingers outside the United States?”
How to Handle a Bad Swinging Experience
John & JackieSo what do you do when you have a bad swinging experience? This can be at a club or a party or even on a date. How do you handle it?
Sexual Benefits Of Being In a Swingers Lifestyle
Jackie MelfiI talk a lot about all the mechanics of an open relationship—all the benefits a consensual non-monogamous union can and does bring to those marriages that introduce the concept into their lives. John and I...